EarlyMorning Musings

hi again

just wondering how many times do u really feel the importance of a person in your life. Or for that matter how many times do you feel that u need a person to bridge all that you couldn't do ; to listen all that you can't say ................

someday i dream of a person ................ who can understand everything by looking my face ............. give me a patient hearing ................... give me sweet rebukes ............... give me that consolation ............ give me that support .............

finally i understand its asking too much from somebody ............ your life has to be handled only by u ...... nobody on this earth can ever handle it for u .............. but does this make the role of a friend redundant ..... no absolutely not ............

friends are thr to pick u when u fall while trying to do what is right ............. while they can't work for you they can give that cushion of comfort that somebody is thr at ur back ........... somebody u can look up to ..... but again friends are difficult to find .............

And when at all you find a certain insecurity arises ............. especially with friends of opposite sex ...... but being with a person of opposite sex and seeing a relationship mature is one of the most beautiful things in life ............. it is interesting, mysterious, adventurous and wat not ..........

Insecurity in losing luv makes us mistakenly lose the friend in them but the insecurity of losing a friend makes us fall in love with them !!

The worst part of life is missing a friend ...... But d best part of life is having a friend worth missing !!!!!

Happiness : the most illusive term on earth

I think so nebody reading this blog of mine shall dismiss me as a pessimist or a moron ........... for killing their time with such useless thoughts of mine .............

But their are things that you can't always say to all, or for that matter can't even write everywhere ........... BLOG helps !!!!!!

I was wondering what exactly is happiness ........... the most illusive term ........... for a drunkard it is a nice wine party ............. for a philanthrophist it is the help he does ............. for a business man it is the money he earns ............... the only irony being that everybody else considers others happiness trivial ............ a businessman earning is useless for a drunkard and vice versa.

After all who exactly can judge that the particular situation is supposed to be a happy one for the person ................. I feel nobody can ever judge this ................. for happiness isn't all that material experiences ..... least the money and other worldly things ...................

Happiness in my view is what makes you feel light ............. it is what relieves you of all pressures ........ it i from within and it is totally vary of the rationale ............ no rationale can ever define whether the situation is worth being happy ................ for even a robber is happy (nd no rationale an ever approve of it) ................ thus happiness is what a person feels ........... it has to be heart strong and not necessarily head strong .....................

Happiness is when a person can lay back and just njoy it with his eyes closed ................. Happiness is when a person sleeps without any worries in mind .............. happiness is what your face reflects ........ what your voice reflects ...............

However the only thing is that with your happiness somebody else should not be sad ............ with ur happiness somebody should not be harmed ............

live and let live is what the proverb says ....................

I say Live and let live happily ................... for the life is too short to fight ............... lets all be happy nd make others happy too .....................

Its just a smile that can bridge all gaps !!!!!!